Soulmates, Twin Flame or Soulful Partnerships? Here is your support!

I went to Natalia because I was in desperate need of a coach who is totally on my side.

I've been to other coaches before, and gaslit in every session that I tried.

Mainstream coaches always seemed to want to get the same thing out of me: to let my TF go. I noticed with these other coaches that they have an image in their head of the person I should become at the end of the sessions. They seemed to have preconceived ideas about what is right for me, so they all took the same line: If you are a “woman” – or at least look as one – it’s about letting go. Because you're needy. Because you hold on too tightly. Because you're a little child still. And therefore you should reason yourself ...because your heart is taking you astray and your intelligence and intuition are surely compromised. So detach yourself from that man, he is a threat and you will end up in a toxic relationship because if he is a man he must surely be toxic. And if you have such and such wounds that come from your female past, your infatuation is just a sad expression of your psyche, which is looking for redemption... and you should stop wanting to be loved by mommy and daddy. Or you should finally allow yourself to be loved by mommy and daddy in the form of “self-love”.

It's never about your TF in these mainstream coachings. The Damocles sword of illusion, which you must of course have fallen for, hovers over you in every mainstream coaching session. This spreads the unspoken belief that men are not able to love and that women always fall for empty promises. No matter how much they consider themselves to be enlightened, LQBTQIA+ friendly etc.; This belief still prevails among the supposedly most modern and open coaches.

But doesn't it sound like patriarchy has put on a really tricky coat?

What always comes across clearly in mainstream coachings is the underlying sexism and misogyny.

With Natalia, my feelings are taken seriously. I am allowed to love. And my sanity is not secretly denied. On the contrary. My judgment is believed. There is also space for the other person – my TF - to actually love me … without any doubt. I am learning to let that truth sink in and I'm in no constant fear that this truth will be twisted again by a professional.

I am allowed to have my doubts, because, hey, that is why I was seeking help in the first place.

 Natalia makes me aware when I'm giving in to my doubts instead of trusting myself. She always brings me back to myself. 

And guess what? There's a lot going on in 3D between me and my TF! I don't just mean idle talk about feeling better and accepting myself, blablabla. Of course that's important.

But after a long period of separation and after working through my actual blockages (!) and not the stereotypical ones, my TF and I are in contact again and I asked him out and he said “yes”- completely naturally and happily, joyfully!!!!

Oh yes, another thing: as a “woman” you are not allowed to approach men in the usual coaching settings. I was once told by a therapist that this was totally wrong and could never work! F* those! If I am to be me, then that means that the Universe is celebrating me that I love reaching out to others!!! I am this!!! Why do mainstream coaches always try to coach this away?

Natalia accepts me as I am. She doesn't have any preconceived ideas about how I should be as a person. The best thing about her coaching is that I don't fall into the trap of trying to please her, as was the dynamic with other coaches (of course, because there were unspoken expectations of me). I know I can open up and say anything.

Even things that don't conform to social conventions. The biggest taboo: falling in love with someone who is already taken. But hey, what are you supposed to do? You don't do this on purpose! You need help, but not the kind that tells you to get over it and forget the one you love the most. But the help that really leads you to your truth. The truth!

Flora, Europe

I so love Natalia's Tarot and Oracle card readings! I feel relieved afterwards and full of joy. I know I'm on the right path. She has a very good intuition and sometimes she is channeling my loved ones on the other side or my spiritual guides (she has professionally trained that!);
I deeply appreciate and love this!!! It always confirms what I already know deep in my heart. And that feeling gives me confidence.

A session does not only fill me with joy, but it also helped me a lot on my way. I am reminding myself of the beautiful readings when I'm beginning to weigh myself down... and regain my hope and strength.

Her readings always lift me up, vibing me into the frequency of harmonious union. And what's really getting me chills: What was predicted in the reading always comes true!!!! A lot is happening here!!!

Anne, Germany

"I always look forward to having a reading in the evening, in comparison, if I knew I had a coaching session coming up, I would probably get nervous because it's deep and that often scares me. With a reading combined with coaching, I know it's relaxed and playful because it involves images, and I love images. It gently guides me to my blocks, which I can then dissolve without much inhibition or resistance up front. It is just wonderful. Thank you so much!"

Gilly, Europe

“I am really glad I got the opportunity to get to know Natalia. During the coaching I felt very safe and secure and thanks to her deep understanding and empathy it was easy for me to trust on and to get involved with myself. She gave me the space to tell her about the current situation with my twin flame and helped identifying and structure the main upsets behind. There are conflicts with him I have been struggling with for months or even years and despite having healed them in the past several times I still was not able to resolve them without external support. Natalia took me by the hand and helped me go deeper into the topics and the healing process. Immediately after the coaching sessions I see results. For exampla once I saw my brother who was looking after my son during a coaching session and he said to me I would shine that much. And he was right, I felt really relieved and peaceful. In the evening I got a Whatsapp message from my twin flame asking how our kid is doing. I do have to tell that officially we are not in a relationship with each other, currently he lives in his own flat and we do not live neither our relationship nor our family live. After he reached out to me I was able to tell him honestly what is going on with our son in the moment - specifically he’s dealing with fit of angers as a result of Dad’s absence - without trying to get anything from him or trying to change his behavior. Surprisingly for me he reacted emotionally, reflected and concerned. He thanked me for sharing my observation with him and told me he knows what to do and that he will try to be a better and responsible father. It seemed to me, as a result of Natalias work, especially by looking at the interaction of respect and femininity, our communication improved significantly. For the first time since a long time I felt heard by him and treated respectfully. I am happy to work again with Natalia on my further healing in order to get closer and closer to improve my partnership. All the best and lot of love, Conny”

Conny, Germany

“I have been on my soul mate journey for three years and have tried many methods on my own to navigate its choppy waters. Meeting with Natalia was my first time working under the guidance of a coach. I must say at first I was unsure how I could be informed of anything that I hadn’t tired or thought of doing on my own but having someone support you and ask questions that perhaps you haven’t asked yourself is of great use and is reassuring. Her calming nature energised my spirit and provided me insight which was something I was hoping to gain. After the sessions I feel confident in my ability to trust my intuition and to follow on my path with positivity and joy."

Carmen, New York

I am so grateful that I took her spiritual courses. Mine was on mediumship. I always felt bad about it because I was raised in superstition about Spirit and the other side (like ghost, bad entities attached to places and people, and so on.). But now I feel calm and at peace for knowing the truth, knowing that everything is peace. And guess what happened after I healed that in course where we were tapping into our spiritual gifts? My twin flame messaged me. I haven't heard from him in months, despite our two kids. Now we are in union because I was able to overcome my fear that had blocked him away. I'm so happy now, thank you so much!

Anna, UK