Again, I'd like to answer a wonderful question. Let's do a little Q&A:

Q: As a Divine Feminine, why does every change or transformation feel so intense, almost like a death, deeply affecting my body? I’ve learned to cope with it, but I still wonder why it has to be so traumatic. And why do others seem so triggered by our presence, feeling the need to either attack or distance themselves? Aren’t we meant to bring people together in love and harmony?

A: Your question is so insightful, and I’m grateful that you’ve shared it here. It shows a deep commitment to the twin flame journey, which is truly beautiful! 

As twin flames, we have a unique mission to heal ourselves and help raise the earth's love vibration. By asking questions like these, you’re supporting not only your own journey but also uplifting others on theirs. Thank you for your openness, and please know that I have permission to share this here, with full respect for your privacy and everyone’s.

I’m honored to address this, as it’s a question that resonates with so many on this path. It’s natural to wonder why our transformations can feel so intense, even physically. And yes, each twin flame journey is distinct, so no single answer fits all, as each stage brings its own unique challenges and lessons.

If we were in a coaching session, I’d work with you to uncover which stage you’re in and explore the specific blockages that might be influencing your experiences and interactions. I’d encourage you as the reader to ask similar questions of yourself as you reflect on this.

Generally, as you move through each stage, your energy vibrates at different frequencies depending on the stage you're at, which can affect those around you. The more you heal, the more you clear energetic “rocks” or blockages in your field, which could be rooted in past lives, ancestral patterns, or even latent healing gifts. Sometimes, as you heal, people sense these energies and react unconsciously, either distancing themselves or becoming triggered.

To repeat it, others might be triggered because as you heal your vibration affects others around you. It is possible that old residues from a past life between the two of you become visible. Or you might become aware of an ancestral block that it presenting itself in front of you. It is also possible that you have healing abilities inside of you that you haven't fully accepted or are not actively using them to support others, but others feel triggered by it. There are so much more possibilities. It is worth exploring that, that's why this question is so potent!

What's very important to know as well, is: Our twin flame mission isn’t just to bring comfort—it’s to raise consciousness, which can sometimes mean unsettling others as they confront their own unhealed patterns. Love, in its truest form, - unconditional love - is freeing and transformative, not just gentle reassurance. Twin flames are distinct from soulmates in that our love tends to reveal hidden aspects within others, clearing a path for healing.

Unconditional love sets free and accepts; a true acceptance is a deep allowing and permission of everything to be felt. All feelings are allowed. If we resist our feelings, it feels exhausting. If we endure rather than accept, we feel drained. Transformation can feel traumatic if we try to control how we feel about it or if we resist our transformation. Transformation in itself is a powerful energy, and we need a lot of energy to suppress it or the feelings about it.

But then, every stage is different, and sometimes we don't suppress transformation. We just upheave old emotions. When we heal a block, it is like we tear out a pearl from a pearl necklace. By pulling it out (one pearl= one block), all other pearls fall out as well, i.e all other feelings relating to that one particular block come to consciousness to be released as well. They are healed, and they just leave our system.

The universe supports you in overcoming your challenges, and that’s where I can assist. Together, we can dive deeper into your unique journey and support your healing. You can absolutely progress on your own, but having guidance can sometimes accelerate the process. 

Thank you again for your courage in sharing this—it’s a question that holds wisdom for us all.